Nowadays ,most of the teenagers are facing depression . Children
living in invadilating circumstances,who have to deal with harsh criticism and different
parents,often face self-esteem issues. This leads them to equate their
existence with material ownership of the latest gadgets or with their idols
like actor,actresses and singers. Since they do not have healthy self-image and
self-worth, their spirit are easily broken and this leads to
depression,self-multilation and even suicide.
On the last week New Straits Times newspaper on Tuesday (err
forgot the date) a prince court medical Centre consultan psychiatrist and
clinical hypnotherapist Dr Daniel Zainal Abidin said this problem are
disturbing trend daily. He say “Elderly males used to be the predominant group
who commit suicide,but now it’s the younger people”.
As a teenager I admit that I was trap on this “kind” of problem
too and I belive that everythings start at home. We should look back to the home
“environment”, How much time do parents spend with their kids ? when their
parents left them at home this make their pain of loneliness and boredom lead
to illicit drug use, spending excessive time in cyber cafes and hanging out
with wrong crowd. Sometimes some kids they subsist on instans noodles while
wait for their parents to return from work so the kids may be lack of the
nutrition.
The intresting part that attract me to read more about
Depression issues is when Dr Daniel Zainal Abidin randomly ask children one
question to his most patients “ If you are trapped on a remote island and if you
can have someone to accompany you, who will you bring?’’ and as the result for
those under 10,70 to 80 per cent would give the name of a FRIEND or distant
relative or even name of their Girlfriend/Boyfriend. And some patients tell him
that is the only person who has ever taken time to listen to them.That to me, is
a sad indication of the deteriorating family bond.
So I think parents should be more alert about this kind of serious
problem.They should HEAR and LISTEN to their children and not fall into the
trap using “But when I was your age, I
was already...” . I think this is wrong ! you cannot equate yourself with a
child now. This world has changed and so must parenting. Because now modern
teenagers live with too much information and temptation like money,social
networking sites,unlimited information on the net and there ia a need to be
actively involved in their lives to counter these and help them build solid
self-worth and let them to express their fear and frustrations.
P/s : I have to do a lot of assigments in newspaper to get better result for MUET examination next years .
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